Look Mommy, Look at What I Did!!

[AgentSun]

haha, i felt artistic at the beginning of summer and i had a lot of stuff lying around. this is what i made. it's for my boyfriend's "anniversary/birthday/just because" gift:

http://img76.photobucket.com/albums/v230/agentsun/collage.jpg

[JrMissToughChick]

Thats cool :cool:

[Col. Kathryn O'Neill]

thats very sweet of ya AS... now i got a face for your name.. you're a very lucky gal to have a guy like him :)

[Martincore]

woah! You seem a bit obsessed with this guy, you're not in love with him are you? ;)

[BrowderChick]

That was so sweet to do though. :D:D

[stellar]

You've got too much time on your hands... watch more Farscape.

[AgentSun]

what do you think was on tv when i was doing it?

[JrMissToughChick]

what do you think was on tv when i was doing it?
the Buffy season one box set? :rollin:

[AgentSun]

actually, no. i've watched that about 10 times in a row and i think one can only get so much of xander's first season quippiness before one goes "blaaaaaah!"

[Jeff O'Connor]

Hah. I accomplished my goal of seeing your picture without ever asking to see it on AIM. I can go to bed happy tonight because I accomplished a long-term goal. I mean, um. Nicely done. :O

[Col.Batguano]

thats very sweet of ya AS... now i got a face for your name.. you're a very lucky gal to have a guy like him :)


I Think - He's a very lucky Guy - to have a Gal like you.

[Jeff O'Connor]

I Think - He's a very lucky Guy - to have a Gal like you.

I second that. :aok:

[faustus]

well I'll third that

[Third EYe]

oh alright

I fourth that.

[AgentSun]

hahaha i'll fifth that!!!

well, no call tonight, but hopefully tomorrow. i will not break down and call him instead. that would scream "clingy" to me, though it might not to him. he understands that it's in my nature to be concerned about him. he's too precious for me to ever stop thinking about. he's a wonderful boy.

i'm a smitten kitten, can't you tell? and in other news, check out the name under my screen name, huh? what do you think about that?!

[Col.Batguano]

hahaha i'll fifth that!!!

well, no call tonight, but hopefully tomorrow. i will not break down and call him instead. that would scream "clingy" to me, though it might not to him.

Never Mind What appears to be, - only what is.
Listen to your Heart, not the paranoid voice in your head.


call him.

[AgentSun]

but--but--then it would be like i was checking up on him.

[Col.Batguano]

but--but--then it would be like i was checking up on him.

just tell him the truth, - you miss him.

[AgentSun]

oh he knows i miss him. he definitely knows.

[Aeryn_Sun99]

yeah...call him...he won't think it's clingy of you....he'll prolly think it's sweet

[AgentSun]

well the problem is, he's going through things with family and i don't want to add any stress. the only reason i'd call is to ask him how his grandma was doing and how he was. i wouldn't expect an hour long conversation. at the same time, i think i should let him call me when he is ready or has the time?

[Col.Batguano]

well the problem is, he's going through things with family and i don't want to add any stress. the only reason i'd call is to ask him how his grandma was doing and how he was. i wouldn't expect an hour long conversation.
sounds like the perfect reason to call.
do you need an hour long conversation? wouldn't 3 minutes do?
how do you know he's not stressed by your silence?

at the same time, i think i should let him call me when he is ready or has the time?

how is he going to know that, if you don't tell him?

AgentSun - I'm 34 years old and single, and I use to sound just like you.

I recently met some one who I feel allot for, and she is having a rough time also, but I refused to repeat the same mistakes, I don't call her all the time but just enough to let her know I'm there if she needs me,
we went out for dinner for the first time a few days ago.

I know it's scary as Hell, and It's hard to know what to do, but doing nothing is just as bad or even worse, and in order to keep the dance going, you will have to move sometime.
just let him know you care. nothing more nothing less.

it took me a very long and painful time to learn that.

[AgentSun]

when we talked on friday, i asked him to call me and keep me updated and he said that when he got time he'd call and update me, so because he said that i don't want to call him instead and catch him at a bad moment and maybe cause more stress.

[Col.Batguano]

when we talked on friday, i asked him to call me and keep me updated and he said that when he got time he'd call and update me, so because he said that i don't want to call him instead and catch him at a bad moment and maybe cause more stress.

sounds good,
just keep in mind what I said.

[AgentSun]

so i called him just now and he's at home, watching the lakers game. he's starting work on tuesday, which will add some stress because he has to wake up really early. i miss him so much and everytime i hear his voice i start tearing up. things are really busy around there so he still isn't sure when he'll be able to start calling me on a frequent basis again. i told him that i'd call him if i felt like i needed to check up on him and he said he appreciated it, so i guess all of your hunches were right on that.

[faustus]

look a happy AgentSun that's what we like to see :aok:

[AgentSun]

i was sooo relieved! but his grandma is still in the hospital and there's progress because the doctors are trying to narrow down what is wrong. when i asked him if it was okay for me to call if i ever wanted to hear his voice or see how he's doing, he said that it was okay. and i'm so glad that he said that because now i don't feel as if i'm being a burden or a bother and the boy was sooo quick to say "you're never a bother" and that made me feel nice.

[faustus]

see how awsome was that

[AgentSun]

but now i'm planning on when i'm going to call next. this is like strategy for me...i don't want to come off as posessive or pestering, so i want to wait a day or two, but i don't want to go too long without calling because that would drive me nuts...

so i think my answer is 42. or maybe tuesday.

[Jeff O'Connor]

Whatever works.

[faustus]

I sounds like and army tactical manover

[AgentSun]

yeah it does sound like that doesn't it? well it's pretty much alike, i want to make the best impressions.

[faustus]

you already have

[AgentSun]

weird, isn't it though cause uh you guys know how crazy i am. so does he. if he were a farscape fan he'd fit in just fine. actually, as soon as i get that season 1 set i'm going to work on converting him. he didn't get into farscape when he watched it.

[faustus]

good plan

[AgentSun]

maybe i should tell him i'm a part of the Save Farscape campaign. and that i've racked up over 4,500 posts on one board.

[faustus]

4532 to be exact

[AgentSun]

indeed! i think he'll just look at me and go "you are a geek!" and i just bought him a shirt from thinkgeek.com that says "I (heart) my geek!"

[faustus]

I think he might know your a geek then

[Jeff O'Connor]

Geek? Who said geek? I dig geeks.

[Col.Batguano]

but now i'm planning on when i'm going to call next. this is like strategy for me...i don't want to come off as posessive or pestering, so i want to wait a day or two, but i don't want to go too long without calling because that would drive me nuts...

so i think my answer is 42. or maybe tuesday.

for right now let it be and be happy to know you are needed, that is a very precious gift.
and it makes me feel very good, and privileged, that I could nudge you to do what your heart knew all along.


the answer is 42, ;) , at least that is what she (my interest) said to me at dinner, :D .

[AgentSun]

:) you guys are awesome. really, you are. you're my second family. when i'm freaking out, i know i can come here and someone will always be more levelheaded than i am, or more experienced, or wiser!

i'm thinking of having a whole new thread where i ask you guys what to do about all my little problems and indecisions, like what i'm going to minor in in college!!

[Jeff O'Connor]

:) you guys are awesome. really, you are. you're my second family. when i'm freaking out, i know i can come here and someone will always be more levelheaded than i am, or more experienced, or wiser!

Well, that level-headed, experienced, and wiser part rules me out. But... thanks for the thought. :aok:

i'm thinking of having a whole new thread where i ask you guys what to do about all my little problems and indecisions, like what i'm going to minor in in college!!

I'll be there for you, if you're there for me too. *cue nine years of episodes here*

[AgentSun]

i have 2 of those years on DVD!

[Jeff O'Connor]

i have 2 of those years on DVD!

Complete with nterviews with the cast and crew, early make-up tests, deleted scenes, other ADV trailers, and... oh wait, wrong DVDs.

[Col.Batguano]

AgentSun - I'll be asking you what to do next,
I've never been invovled with some one for more than a few weeks before making a classic mistake.
:rolleyes:

[AgentSun]

my strategy is to come off as caring, but not too caring, otherwise i come off as smothering. though i doubt anything i do short of cheating on him, will make him squeamish. the boy who proclaimed his love for me the third day into our relationship, feeling smothered? nah.

i think i'll call on tuesday, just to ask him if he noticed venus going across the sun. and to tell him happy anniversary, and tell him that i'll probably call again in the week, if it's okay. and i know if it wasn't a good time for me to call he'd say so.

[faustus]

your phone bill must be huge

[AgentSun]

well, he usually calls later at night, because he gets free nights and weekends. to me, a phone bill isn't such a big deal because my mom spends a lot of money paying hers off because of business. so my phone bill for being on my cell phone to north carolina (talking to my friend) for an hour is a blip on her bill.

and he usually calls me because he has free nights and weekends. but i don't mind calling him.

[faustus]

well there you go free calls. well almost free calls. how cool is that.

[AgentSun]

very cool. of course at college, all we have to do is punch in a 4 digit extension and voila. but here, it's like, 11 digits.

[faustus]

hang on a second I need to make a phone call beep beep beep beep beep beep beep beep beep beep beep beep beep beep beep.
damn engaged

[AgentSun]

you should hear me when i mess up. its like :

beep beep beep beep beep beep beep beep beep --oh CRAAAAP!! beep beep beep beep beep beep beep beep beep beep beep ......

[faustus]

:lol

[AgentSun]

i am absolutely amazed at him sometimes. he's never met anyone as geeky as me. i'm a scifi fan, a computer nut, i read and breathe scifi, i'm a writer, reading is a hobby, i like to discuss politics, i like art, i make art, and he has finally found someone who is just as sarcastic as he is.

we have fake fights. when we're both frustrated at something, we end up taking leads and just have competitions to upstage one another and insult each other until we both get tired, start laughing, and forget what we were frustrated about. and then we laugh harder when we think of who might've been watching us.

when he visited me during our last break, my parents actually thought we were fighting.

[faustus]

woahh :aok:

[AgentSun]

he thinks i'm crazy cause i love him.

aww...

anyways...

[Col.Batguano]

i am absolutely amazed at him sometimes. he's never met anyone as geeky as me. i'm a scifi fan, a computer nut, i read and breathe scifi, i'm a writer, reading is a hobby, i like to discuss politics, i like art, i make art, and he has finally found someone who is just as sarcastic as he is.

we have fake fights. when we're both frustrated at something, we end up taking leads and just have competitions to upstage one another and insult each other until we both get tired, start laughing, and forget what we were frustrated about. and then we laugh harder when we think of who might've been watching us.

when he visited me during our last break, my parents actually thought we were fighting.

you sound like every Guys Dream Girl.
he is a lucky guy.

[AgentSun]

well he's pretty much a dream guy too, though i never thought i'd like an athlete...huh...