help... need a good hug

[Zimtsternchen]

Without explaining anything further right now (though if you have been reading other posts of mine you'll have an idea)-

I am the end of my strenght, end of my wits, and in the middle of something. I almost don't know what to do anymore, this is taking more out of me than I can deal with. I am worried sick about someone and there's nothing I can do but hang in there and not let it get me.

So please feel free to hug away, remind me that there is more to life, if you can, pray for me, and a very stupid boy. And I hope that some day I can look back at this and laugh. Thank you.

[fiona-maria]

Hang in there. I know it's tough, I do. I don't have your situation, but I have been driven to the edge of sanity, exhaustion and breakdown myself, and every time I think I can't do this any more and that I am done, well, I find it in me from somewhere. You have it too. Just remember - you are not alone. You have friends, people who care, who love you regardless. You will survive.

You will come through this. You will survive. Just hang in. It will get better. I promise. It will get better. This is just a stage, a phase.

Hang in there.

[who45]

Prayers going out to you. :hug:

[zahncrelnik]

good thoughts to you :meditate:
:hug: :hug:

[BrowderChick]

:hug: You know that we are here and should you need to talk, you know how to contact me. :hug:

[Zantar]

I am in no way trivilize what you are going through. Sometimes, though, its good to laugh. So here you go:

Always Look On The Bright Side of Life
from
Monty Python's Life of Brian

Cheer up, Brian. You know what they say.
Some things in life are bad,
They can really make you mad.
Other things just make you swear and curse.
When you're chewing on life's gristle,
Don't grumble, give a whistle!
And this'll help things turn out for the best...
And...

the music fades into the song

...always look on the bright side of life!
whistle

Always look on the bright side of life...
If life seems jolly rotten,
There's something you've forgotten!
And that's to laugh and smile and dance and sing,

When you're feeling in the dumps,
Don't be silly chumps,
Just purse your lips and whistle -- that's the thing!
And... always look on the bright side of life...

whistle
Come on!

other start to join in
Always look on the bright side of life...
whistle

For life is quite absurd,
And death's the final word.
You must always face the curtain with a bow!
Forget about your sin -- give the audience a grin,
Enjoy it -- it's the last chance anyhow!

So always look on the bright side of death!
Just before you draw your terminal breath.
Life's a piece of sh*t,
When you look at it.

Life's a laugh and death's a joke, it's true,
You'll see it's all a show,
Keep 'em laughing as you go.
Just remember that the last laugh is on you!

And always look on the bright side of life...
whistle
Always look on the bright side of life
whistle

[Craistine]

:hug:

Sorry to hear that it goes worse instead better. :(
If only I had more time (let alone a car) right now, I´d come to Holland to cheer you up a bit...

But in case you wanna talk, rant, whine... whatever, feel free to PM me. :kotc:

[kymom5613]

:hugz: and prayers heading your way...

[Zimtsternchen]

Thanks you all... I am doing better, sometimes at least. Thank goodness for valerian and St. John's Worth. I'll hang in there and I know I have to find the strenght if there is anything I want to do. Wish I could talk about it more, but there is too much I don't know myself... if it was just a broken heart I could just tell the guy to go to hell and move on but this is a little more complicated. I have seen too many people do stupid things.. thanks again, I am glad you are there.

[BrowderChick]

:hug: Anytime you need us. :D

[Clarsax]

:hug: :hug: Here's some good thoughts for you. :hug: :hug: :hug: